A new parent writing to Slate’s Dear Prudence described strangers asking an intrusive personal question shortly after the birth of a first child.
The columnist acknowledged that well-meaning curiosity often crosses into territory new mothers and fathers find invasive, particularly on topics related to feeding, sleep and recovery. Prudence advised brief, firm responses that signal boundaries without escalating conflict.
Parenting forums and advice columns have documented a pattern in which strangers feel entitled to comment on infant care in public spaces. The letter writer sought validation that declining to answer was reasonable.
The response noted that protecting a family’s privacy after childbirth is a legitimate priority, and that deflecting unwanted questions does not require lengthy explanation.
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Sources:
https://slate.com/human-interest/dear-prudence